mackdaddyg wrote:One thing that struck me...there wasn't any sort of interview with Mary. Aside from the book she co-wrote about Jack, it doesn't seem like there's much out there from her. Was she reluctant to give interviews? I understand she had some serious mic fright issues, but I figured an interview wouldn't be too bad.
Mary gave very, very few interviews on her own, and didn't even go out a lot later in life. So appearances like
The Tonight Show were rare, as endorsement for the book (which, you'll note, has even very little interview with her, other than the story of her getting together with Jack). She was considered something of a recluse after Jack's passing.
In going through some random files of hers from the late 70s and 80s, I found many invitations to various events which had simply been filed. Fan letters too. She was invited to Ronald Reagan's inauguration (Reagan had been one of Jack's pallbearers, and Nancy is said to have visited Mary the day before her death), but she politely declined. I got a one-page, very brief note from her in 1982 after hounding her with letters (as only a 13-year-old can do) via Fred deCordova. I'm sure Freddy probably said something to her like, "Come on, Mary, give her a break. Write a note."
It was strange to see some broad-market coupon books that had been sent to her, and just happened to get swept up in the file. I guess no one is immune from junk mail.